Big social events

Yes, i dislike most things that force me to go there and be amongst mostly family things. Ofc a wedding is something different, thats mostly fun to go too. But then you have those occassions you should be there because it shows that person/occasion is important to you too. But on the other hand... its just an occassion to come together, eat eat eat eat talk talk talk talk whine whine whine and eventualy go home, leaving the host (incase if it was at one of the family members house) with alot of dishes, and clean work.

Good example of this, my nephew of 2 months (and a few weeks) got his ceremony in the church, so the satureday my grand parents came over here as they had to come from to far, the came to us to sleep till sunday. Meaning my mom threw me out of bed early and pushed me arround having to do various things to have all ready for sunday. It annoys me, cos i hate it when my mom is gonna be the host for these occassions.. shes a controle freak and expects me to be nice and social at all time. Even help the whole time. So.. satureday was a pretty busy day and i was already annoyed again with the whole thing. Sunday came, get up early (its weekend... i have not much time during the week so i want to sleep long in the weekend... ye right.. occassion almost no sleep at all!!! >_
Eventualy the ceremony is over.. you think go home, enjoy the afternoon... no way. Its host time! So i was supposed to be the waiter or something. Lots of peeps come to my house, to "celibrate" (realy just drink drink talk talk whine whine laugh laugh) that my nephew got his ceremony. Ok, i like my nephew but i hate the side effect of having to waste my weekend over some ceremony that was in my eyes, rather useless. But ok.. im a nice son i mostly listen to my parents. So i have been waiter and helper all day long... then all went home and im still busy with mom and dad (and my 2nd brother) cleaning up the whole darn place. Eventualy its late in the evening, i had nothing of my relaxing weekend and im exhaused by all this things. Not to mention i have a terrible headache and i would realy like to knock myself out and sleep till tomorrow that i have to get up early (again!!!) for school.

Anyways, thnx for letting me write down some frustration down here :p hope i did not bore you with it and if you didnt bother reading it.. thats ok atleast i got to write it down and not whine myself to some other person.

ouch a long text ^^

i think i understand ur problem, u have to come on and do the work etc about something, that has not really to do something about u ^^

like someone (parents) want to make party at home, sure will they ask u / us to do this/that and help^^ while we did not even wanted or did agree in that party :)

i had that in my time too as i still did live at home :)
had to take hand on everything ^^ but once u out the home, u will miss that